I don’t get it. I just don‘t. How come men always say that women are hard to understand. We are a really understanding bunch of people who would do anything and everything for the people we love and adore. We don’t expect people to GUESS what we’re trying to say.
Jamie, my dear cousin wrote about how to decipher what women are saying when they say certain words. I mean, we always say it as it is what…what’s the problem? To rebutt some of the things Jamie said,
When women say ‘Fine‘, they usually mean fine. You mean, men don’t say fine to end an argument or discussion? ‘Five Minutes‘ is standard for all Malaysians, not just women. Most of us will say ‘On the Way‘ even though we’re just getting out of bed and not even brush our teeth yet.
Aaaahhhh…..’Nothing‘ is definitely a woman’s creation. When I say ‘nothing‘ means that I want you to go on guessing and bodek-ing me until I tell you what is wrong with what you did or what it was that you didn’t do. So start guessing and tracing back your actions.
‘Go Ahead‘….depends on how I say it. If I say it with my eyes really big, it’s a dare. If it’s not, then it really means ‘go ahead’.
‘Whatever‘ is something that I use when you just don’t get it. Why can’t you see it my way…I am right all the way, you know. I was always right before and I am still always right. You are a man mah, you must be gentlemanly and give in to me. Since you didn’t, then I say ‘whatever’. You’re hopeless! 
Can you guess what I am trying to say when I say the following:-
uh-hhmm
Ssssuuuuureeee
Of course, of course.
Sure!
you’re right
up to you
Women are difficult to decipher - AMEN to that, else life won’t be challenging now, would it?
hehehehe…don’t be pissed la. I also wrote that it DOES NOT apply for ALL women ma…soli loh…hehehehe
The way I decipher:
uh-hhmm
Ssssuuuuureeee
Of course, of course.
Sure!
you’re right
up to you
is that you are resting your case liao…no more hope in men…and you might go find a cave somewhere to meditate…we can go to hell for all you care…betul kah cuz?
aiyoooo…. I am SO going to kena lamblasted for this post…kekekeke
Better kena taruh 99 than some donkey trying to revoke my citizenship…HAHAHHA
no lah, i am not angry AT ALL lah!!!! LOL. it’s true, sometimes i dont even understand what i am trying to say. women are NOT hard to understand at all….that’s why women can understand women better because both women are good at guessing. it’s an EMO thing, you know. women just have it. men have NUTS. Er…..yeah… LOL
Marsha, we women can be a bit hard to understand sometimes, except me lah. I speak my mind.
Having said that, MEN are worse!! I shan’t go into that cos I notice most of your commentors here are MEN!! Do they understand what they are commenting here?
Here’s my interpretations:
uh-hhmm - I think I’m following you but I need some more assurance.
Ssssuuuuureeee - I’m humoring you for right now because you may be right but I’m not sure.
Of course, of course. - Yeh, I get it. Get on with it. I GOT IT.
Sure! - No problem. I’ll take care of it.
you’re right - I accept you position (perhaps not totally) , but not worth the hassle of continued debate.
up to you - You know what I think and I gave you my choice(s) and how I feel. So respect that and make the best decision.
At the risk of generalization I would say on technical and on physical issues, Men are easier to understand.
On artistic, aesthetics, emotions, and soft side of life, women are easier to understand.
Personally I relate better to and understand women more then men.
Primarily because men are mostly 2 dimensional. Myself included I think, and women are more interesing to talk to.
Let me know how i did on the test.
Interesting post.
Alan
Regardless…I find certain women absolutely beautiful. The way they can wear their hair in a million and one ways, their sweet perfumes that take my breath away, the way they talk…so softly and feminine…the way they swing their curvaceous hips when walking…their full mammary glands…the way their butt protude out when wearing high heels..sigh…
I’m speaking about beautiful women here. And I know these women personally. Marsha…in fact you know one of them too. She’s a TV presenter and national TV newscaster. Rings a bell? hehehe…
BUT….I hate those bitchy ones…who talk loudly..duduk kangkang in skirt…non stop powdering their faces…keep looking at mirrors to ‘check’ themselves…delights in gossips…etc. Tpuiiiii!!! Nia ma! They think they sooooooo
pretty ah???
A wise old men once told me “You no need to understand women. All you need to do is to love them…and they will be with you til the very end”.
TO all the beautiful women that I know…both inwardly and outwardly (that includes you, Marsha)..I love you all!
killer guy: hear ye, hear ye, hear ye…TOTALLY agree with you…
Jamie